ONLY MY OPINION

ONLY MY OPINION

I have no problem with low necklines showing some cleavage if that's what you are comfortable in, and I'm not a religious fanatic. However I would like to give young brides something to think about.

I am in the position to see a lot of brides every year, and the styles these last few years have been revealingly low cut. I find this to be in poor taste for two reasons.

First, anyone who wears low-cut is asking for attention to that area. Shouldn't your wedding day at least be the one day you need or want attention of that kind only from that one important man? If it's important for you to have everyone stare at your cleavage on the day you wed, that's in poor taste but still acceptable.

Second, however is walking down a church isle with your boobs bouncing out of your gown. That, to me is not only in poor taste, but it's low class and very tacky.

There is an easy solution. I have seen some beautiful floor length lace jackets , that when worn over the wedding gown , actually look like part of the dress, but are easily taken off when you leave the church. Consider what I've said and then do what you feel most comfortable doing. Just my own 2 cents!

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FOOD STAINS

FOOD STAINS

If you are large on top, then no doubt you've got stains on the tops of your shirts, sweaters, and dresses. Either that or you've got some very heavy napkins.
For this reason I believe it's best to shy away from dry clean only clothes. ASAP, after you eat the garment in question should be pretreated or soaked until it can be washed. Otherwise, all your clothes will have stains in the middle of your chest, and people will just think you're a slob.

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LOOKS

LOOKS

Looks are important to everyone to some extent and I'm sure some of you are curious as to what I look like in relationto what I blog about here. I would say I fall short of getting a job as a circus freak because of my size, but big enough to have experienced all the negative parts. Right now , because of ill health and love of food I am looking more like a well endowed penguin complete with the waddle. In fact that is my favorite animal , and If I was an animal in a previous life I believe penguin would describe me to a tee.
First because of the waddle, second because penguins are friendly and social animals, and third because they make people laugh. So let's leave it at that, yes I need to lose weight, but at least people are not just staring at my breasts these days.

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WHAT WE DON'T TALK ABOUT

WHAT WE DON'T TALK ABOUT

Ladies, those of us with large breasts should be more alert when it comes to breast cancer than our counterparts.

First, when I was pregnant my doctor told me that because of my size it would be very likely that one day in the future I would or could develop lumps. He was not referring to cancer, but the point is if I know I have the kind of breast that will develop lumps I should be made more aware that if I think it's a lump I feel it most likely is. That also the next step should be right to the doctor.

The second thing, is that when you are large, and in warmer climates you may develop some kind of heat rashes under the breasts. These may not be heat rashes. It may be Inflammatory Breast Cancer. If for whatever reason you do not powder and shower in hot weather as often as you should, and you develop what you think could be some kind of bug bites. It may not be bug bites, but Inflammatory Breast Cancer.

ANY NEW OR UNUSUAL MARKS UNDER OR ON THE BREASTS SHOULD BE CHECKED OUT BY A DOCTOR AND A SECOND OPINION WOULD NOT BE OUT OF LINE ALSO.

I AM NOT A DOCTOR, ALWAYS CONSULT YOUR DOCTOR SHOULD YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS OR DOUBTS ABOUT THE HEALTH OF YOUR BREASTS.

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